Relationships do not have to be hard.  They can be challenged by conflicts that are not managed effectively.  Couples who learn how to engage in mature dialogue, especially when their respective values are not aligned, often report higher levels of relationship satisfaction.  Therapy is an opportunity to master the skills that lead to meaningful connection and incredible pleasure.  During the therapeutic process, each person will identify how her or his unmet needs have led to frustration and resentment.  The repair process is a critical part of the process that will lead the couple to deeper levels of intimacy.